Today I am going to write about the art of closing circles. We all have experienced being trapped in a loophole, it might be convenient but we must get out of it. It might be a toxic relationship or a job that doesn’t inspire us. First of all we have to understand that even the best relationship sometimes has to end. It might be a relationship with our best mate or our partner. People do change but not always for the better. As we grow we change and we think in a different way so is very common to leave behind us some relationships in order to add new relationships in our life. We remove the old in order to welcome the new. This is something that comes organically like nature after a hurricane develops it self again. We shouldn’t be angry and bitter when we leave something behind us, because it helped us to develop our self so far and it gave us meaningful experiences, it just doesn’t suit us anymore, so is the time for the circle to end in order to open a new circle. Being trapped in a loophole is the worst thing to do because we will just recycle the same old material. If a relationship isn’t going forward is not staying the same, actually is going backward and it is just a matter of time to end.
Even when we have good relationships in our life, we shouldn’t be too attached on them because are actually temporary. When we are too attached on them we will be afraid all the time that we might lose the relationship and as a result we will be jealous angry and bitter. Relationships are like renting an expensive car or an Airbnb apartment with Jacuzzi. we will still enjoy driving the fast car and living in the expensive apartment even when we know that is rented. we won’t be frustrated that the rental is going to end , so we can think in the same way when we have a relationship that we actually don’t know if it’s going to last , and even if it lasts is just for this life. I am not saying to not connect with other people or having deep and meaningful relationships, we just have to acknowledge that we are the only permanent person in our life.
As I said fear is our worst enemy and the reason of not leaving behind us toxic relationships, is because we are afraid that we won’t find another best mate that is more related with our values or a loyal and understanding partner. Actually behind the fear of losing a relationship is the fear of death but this is something that we are going to discuss in another article. Fear is also the reason that we won’t quit our job , even when we don’t find any meaning and it doesn’t express us in any way. The familiar is more convenient than the unknown even if it doesn’t suit us because it doesn’t require to get out from our comfort zone like the unknown.
When we try to get out of the fuckin’ circle is very difficult and requires a lot of effort but is totally worth it.
So today we discussed about the art of closing circles. What circle did you close recently?
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Until next time!
Khrishna
